"Sustainability is based on peace with the earth. The violence intrinsic to methods and metaphors used by the global agribusiness and biotechnology corporations is ...inconsistent with women's diverse non-violent ways of knowing nature and providing food security. ... In place of women deciding what is grown in fields and served in kitchens, agriculture based on globalisation, genetic engineering and corporate monopolies on seeds will establish a food system and worldview in which men controlling global corporations control what is grown in our fields and what we eat. ...We do not want a partnership in this violent usurpation of the creativity of creation and Third World women by global biotechnology corporations who call themselves the "Life Sciences Industry" even while they push millions of species and millions of small farmers to extinction." --Vandana Shiva, "Monocultures, Monopolies, Myths And The Masculinisation Of Agriculture"

" Now, some folks has money to build monuments with -- great, tall, marble pillars with angels on top of 'em, like you see in Cave Hill and them big city buryin'-grounds. And some folks can build churches and schools and hospitals to keep folks in mind of 'em, but all the work I've got to leave behind me is jest these quilts, and sometimes when I'm settin' here, workin' with my caliker and gingham pieces, I'll finish off a block, and I laugh and say to myself,
'Well, there's another stone for the monument.' "
--Eliza Calvert Hall

     

How the days wound down
and the turning of winter
I recall, with you growing heavy
against the wind I thought
now her hands
are formed, and her hair
has started to curl
now her teeth are done
now she sneezes.
Then the seed opened
I bore you one morning just before spring
My head rang like a fiery piston
my legs were towers between which
A new world was passing.
  --Audre Lorde, from "Now That I Am Forever With Child"

"Childbirth is more admirable than conquest, more amazing than self-defense, and as courageous as either one."
--Gloria Steinem

"I want a world in which women can mother, not just bear children and keep them alive the best we can in a world that hates them and wants to kill them because they are ours. ...Patriarchy continues to ...control the discussion of mothering...Women...have understood that the reason parents cannot care for children is that men's world is organized insanely, from its basic life-negating values out through every aspect of life."
--Sonia Johnson

We are meant to thrive by breastfeeding. If a woman chooses not to breastfeed her baby, that decision sends a message to doctors, nurses, midwives and health educators that breastfeeding is sometihng modern women do not want to be bothered with. ...By choosing not to breastfeed a woman sends a message that her physical presence is not required by her child. This allows the government and employers to assume that it is not necessary to provide women with either paid maternity leave or daycare at the jobsite.

Suzanne Arms, "Immaculate Deception II --Myth, Magic & Birth"

     

"Home schooling bears clear imprints of the liberal feminism that was blossoming when many of today's homeschooling mothers came of age...Like their more conventional neighbors, homeschooling women face hard choices between paid work and parenting. Where they differ is in how they decide to navigate those choices."
-- Mitchell L. Stevens, "The Kingdom of Children -- Culture and Controversy in the Homeschooling Movement

Articles and links to articles on gardening, farming, homesteading, self-sufficiency, home life, home arts, homeschooling, pregnancy, birth and parenting

Gardening, Farming, Homesteading, Self Sufficiency


Rural Womyn Zone
This is a nicely done website for rural womyn which includes articles, a forum and links. There is a special emphasis on violence against rural womyn and how little attention the problem has received.
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ww.ruralwomyn.net

You Grow Girl
Great gardening website.
http://www.yougrowgirl.com/index.php

Living Simply--Rethinking the Good Life
Cheryl Lindsey Seelhoff, The Margins
I believe it’s time to rethink what we mean when we say we want to "live simply," to redefine it for ourselves, to explore new options, that will help us to achieve some of the joys or benefits of simplicity and homesteading in ways we might not have considered before. When things don't work, it is time to move on and try something different.
http://www.homeschoolnewslink.com/articles/vol5iss2/livingsimply1_v5i2.html

Monocultures, Monopolies, Myths And The Masculinisation Of Agriculture
by Vandana Shiva, Director Research Foundation for Science, Technology and Ecology - India
http://gos.sbc.edu/s/shiva2.html


Waverly Fitzgerald's School of the Seasons
This is a beautiful site put together by a Waverly Fitzgerald, who is pagan. Along with beautiful calendars featuring pagan holidays, there are seasonal gardening ideas, recipes, ideas for celebrations, earth-y crafts. I have appreciated this site for years now and particularly for its peaceful spirit, its creativity and originality.
http://www.schooloftheseasons.com/index.html

A Quilted Tour Through Time
http://www.womenfolk.com/historyofquilts/articles.htm

Quiltart Quiltart, the Internet's largest mailing list for contemporary art quilters, was established in 1995 as a means for those interested in innovative, contemporary art quilting to share, learn and grow.
http://www.quiltart.com

QuiltEthnic.com
Quilting and/or fiber related art, craft and textile traditions of diverse ethnic groups from contemporary, traditional and/or historical perspectives
http://www.quiltethnic.com/intro.html

The Underground Railroad and the Use of Quilts as Messengers for Fleeing Slaves
http://www.antiquequiltdating.com/ugrr.html

Alternative Nature Online Herbal
http://www.altnature.com/index.html

Protective Sachets by Danielle Aditi Lindsey
"My latest project is making protective and healing sachets…some would call them gris gris, asafoedita bags, amulets, charm bags or protection spells….I'd been studying herbal lore the last couple of years and decided at last to do something with that knowledge."
http://www.gentlespirit.com/gs7n05/ada/Dani.pdf

Dutch Oven Dinners
by Cheryl Lindsey Seelhoff
http://www.gentlespirit.com/gs6n07/v6n07e.htm



"It seems to me that mothering is the business of making the world amenable to children, seeing to it, for example, that every child born is immenselyvalued for being exactly who they are...I want a world in which women can mother, not just bear children and keep them alive the best we can in a world that hates them and wants to kill them because they are ours. That is patriarchy's definition of motherhood, not mine. Patriarchy continues to define for women what we want, continues to control the discussion of mothering. Which of us...would ever have thought of such a hideous idea as child care centers, for instance? It simply would not have occurred to mothers to solve the problem of child care in a way so profoundly unsatisfactory for both children and adults, and ultimately all of society.

Women, if we had felt powerful and had been setting the terms of our own debate...would have understood that the reason parents cannot care for children is that men's world is organized insanely, from its basic life-negating values out through every aspect of life. ...We would have begun, as we have, to ask the world-changing questions: what do we value? How do we want to live? What kinds of work really need to be done...How could we organize society so that everyone's needs could be met, only useful and healthful work would be done, and everyone would have time to live?"
--Sonia Johnson, 'Wildfire: Igniting the She/Volution"

Midwifery Today.com -- The Heart and Science of Birth
Has a great, active forum!
www.Midwiferytoday.com

Midwives Association of North America
The mission of MANA is to provide a nurturing forum for support and cooperation among midwives.
http://www.mana.org/

American College of Domiciliary Midwives
http://www.goodnewsnet.org/index.html

Tribute to Granny Midwives
http://www.mainewomen.net/granny.html

Birth Alliance
http://www.birthalliance.com/personalarticles.html

Born Free: The Unassisted Childbirth Page
http://unassistedchildbirth.com/

Sheilakitzinger.com
S
heila Kitzinger lectures to midwives in many different countries. She is honorary professor at Thames Valley University and teaches the MA in midwifery in the Wolfson School of Health Sciences there. She also teaches workshops on the social anthropology of birth and breastfeeding and on unhappiness after childbirth for birth educators and postnatal counsellors, too. Sheila Kitzinger combines birth activism with research, writing, lecturing and appearing on radio and TV. Her research includes work on women's experiences of antenatal care, birth plans, induction of labour, epidurals, episiotomy, hospital care in childbirth, children's experiences of being present at birth, post traumatic stress following childbirth and the many different messages that touch can give during childbirth.
http://www.sheilakitzinger.com/


Alternamoms.com
"An AlternaMom is any woman who, above all else, QUESTIONS and THINKS FOR HERSELF. AlternaMoms usually know more about pregnancy and childbirth than the average woman. These things are a passion to her. She may be a doula, midwife, or harbor secret desires to become one of these. AlternaMoms are "birth junkies" and will usually admit this readily! She probably started out with her first pregnancy wanting the best for her baby (like all moms do) and decided that having a drug free birth was the best way to go for her. Some go farther and decide that having her baby at home is better than at a hospital. Some

even go so far as to want to birth their babies without any medical professionals at all. Before they know it, they are questioning everything - vaccinations, circumcision, public schools. It can be very lonely, especially since these things are so "mainstream." This can make the AlternaMom very defensive of her choices, to the point of being labeled "militant." What is seen as militant by the rest of society, however, is only the AlternaMom's love for babies and children, all of them, and the desire to see all children brought up in a manner that is best for them."
http://www.alternamoms.com/welcome.html

HipMama Magazine
For feminist mothers: supportive, intelligent, quirky, irreverent.
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ttp://www.hipmama.com/

Mamanirvana.net
"We are building a site that has like-minded mamas, all with the same core beliefs. ..We hope to make the proverbial village in which to raise our children. What are those core beliefs? Children are entitled to respect, to their mother's milk, to an intact body. They are entitled to an intact spirit as well, and have the right to be guided gently as they grow, to grow without punishment or shame. MamaNirvana welcomes all who share those principles.
http://www.mamanirvana.net/cgi-bin/dcforum/dcboard.pl

Mothering Magazine
A trusted source of information for alternative and progressive mothers for decades. There are great boards on this website, too, with threads on homeschooling, alterntaive education, circumcision, vaccination.

http://www.mothering.com

The Centre for Research on Mothering
The Centre for Research on Mothering, at York University, Toronto, houses the Association for Research on Mothering, and the Journal of the Association for Research on Mothering. The Centre's mandate is to promote feminist maternal scholarship by building and sustaining a community of researchers -- academics and grassroots -- interested in the topic of mothering-motherhood.
http://www.yorku.ca/crm/index.htm

The Compleat Mother
Women gaining empowerment through homebirth and breastfeeding, women creating circles of love, family beds, loving homes and supportive communities
http://www.compleatmother.com/

The Natural Child Project
http://www.naturalchild.org/home/

Nonviolent Parenting
http://www.neverhitachild.org/

Family Bed
http://www.wearsthebaby.com/articles/familybed.htm
http://www.breastfeeding.com/reading_room/family_bed.html

www.girlmom.com
A great feminist website for teenage moms.
http://www.girlmom.com

HipMama Magazine
For feminist mothers: supportive, intelligent, quirky, irreverent.
http://www.hipmama.com

Mamatron
Mamatron.org was created in response to the HipMama board coming to its end. According to their mission statement, HM was a place for "mamas of color, bi/lesbian/poly mamas, very young mamas, mamas on public assistance, sex worker mamas, single mamas, artist mamas, socialist mamas, green mamas, anarchist mamas, and pro-choice mamas." Mamatron.org will strive to be the same sort of place.
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p://www.mamatron.org/viewtopic.php?t=22

Rebel Mama's Cooperative
Interesting boards.
http
://www.rebelmamascoop.com/bb/index.php

Noncoercive Parenting
by Janet Reiland

Nonheirarchical, noncoercive, respectful parenting
http://www.gentlespirit.com/gs7n05/ada/gs7n05.htm

Welfare Mom Homepage
This site is by and about a welfare-mom, but it is for everybody -- policy makers, single parents, low-income families of all make-ups, feminists, activists, and anyone who cares about policy and economics as they affect the little guy. I hope to convey that the employed, underemployed, and unemployed populations are simply many sides of the same coin. We should not allow ourselves to be pited against one another as a distraction. We need to work together for the good of our nation and our nation's children.
http://www.geocities.com/CapitolHill/1064/


A prematurely-born baby receives breast milk of a very different composition -- in terms of fat content and trace nutrients -- than a full-term baby, and the milk a mother produces when her baby is two weeks old is different from the milk she creates when it is six months old. ..We are meant to thrive by breastfeeding...If a woman chooses not to breast-feed her baby, that decision sends a message to doctors, nurses, midwives and health educators that breastfeeding is something modern women do not want to be bothered with. If a poor woman on government assistance elects not to breast feed, the message she unconsciously sends to her government and social service agencies is that money that could be spent on crucial needs, such as housing, education and job training, should be spent instead on buying vast quantities of artificial milk. That money lines the pockets of those companies that manufacture formula, bottles and plastic nipples. It does not help poor women. By choosing not to breast feed a woman sends a message that her physical presence is not required by her child. This allows the government and employers to assume that it is not necessary to provide women with either paid maternity leave or day care
at the job site."
Suzanne Arms, "Immaculate Deception II -- Myth, Magic & Birth"

World Alliance for Breastfeeding Action (WABA)
http://www.waba.org.br/

Breastfeeding.com
Great boards!
http://www.breastfeeding.com/cgi-bin/Ultimate.cgi

African American Breastfeeding Alliance
http://www.blackwomenshealth.com/BreastFeeding.htm

Thoughts on Breastfeeding
Dr. Katherine A. Dettwyler's site. Dettwyler is an Adjunct Professor of Anthropology and Nutrition at Texas A&M University. She is the author of Dancing Skeletons: Life and Death in West Africa, which recounts tales of her fieldwork on child health in Mali. Dancing Skeletons was awarded the 1995 Margaret Mead Award from the American Anthropological Association and the Society for Applied Anthropology. She is also the co-editor of Breastfeeding: Biocultural Perspectives, which includes her own two chapters "Beauty and the Breast: The Cultural Context of Breastfeeding in the United States," and "A Time to Wean: The Hominid Blueprint for a Natural Age of Weaning in Modern Human Populations." She is the author of many other scholarly articles and is currently writing a book on research methodology in the study of infant/child feeding. This collection of web pages features some of Prof. Dettwyler's past thoughts on breastfeeding, gleaned from posts to email lists, her books, and other writings.
http://www.prairienet.org/laleche/dettwyler.html#comments


"At first glance some critics see... full-time mothers in what appear to be traditional household roles--and assume that home schooling is a reactionary, antifeminist cause. In fact home schooling bears clear imprints of the ... feminism that was blossoming when many of today's homeschooling mothers came of age. Like most women, home-schooling mothers take for granted that the idealized domesticity of the 1950s housewife is a thing of the past. Like their more conventional neighbors, homeschooling women face hard choices between paid work and parenting. Where they differ is in how they decide to navigate those choices."
--Mitchell L. Stevens, from "The Kingdom of Children-
Culture and Controversy in the Homeschooling Movement"

Homeschool History

A Homeschoolers' History of Homeschooling, Parts I-VI
by Cheryl Lindsey Seelhoff, The Margins
A history of the homeschooling movement which I wrote for my own publication from the perspective of having lived through the early days of the movement in the United States. I have been homeschooling my children for 20 years.

Part 1: A Homeschoolers' History of Homeschooling
http://www.gentlespirit.com/gs6n09/HSH1.pdf

Part II: Influences
http://www.gentlespirit.com/gs6n10/HSH2.pdf

Part III: 1990-1992
http://www.gentlespirit.com/gs6n11/hsh3b.pdf

Part IV: H.R. 6
http://www.gentlespirit.com/gs7n01/hsh4.pdf

Part V: The Gentle Spirit Controversy
http://www.gentlespirit.com/gs7n02/hsh5.pdf

Part VI: 1995-1997
http://www.gentlespirit.com/gs7n04/hsh6.pdf

Who Stole Homeschooling?
by Cheryl Lindsey Seelhoff, The Margins
http://www.gentlespirit.com/gs6n03/v6n03b.htm

Battling for the Heart and Soul of Homeschoolers
by Helen Cordes
This is an interesting article about the politics of homeschooling; I am quoted in this article.
http://dir.salon.com/mwt/feature/2000/10/02/homeschooling_battle/index.html

Special Report: Seelhoff vs. Welch
This is a special report about homeschooling politics in general and my battle with the Religious Homeschooling Right in particular.
http://www.home-ed-magazine.com/HEM/HEM165.99_clmn.html

Homeschool Practice

Creating an Unschooling Environment
by Cheryl Lindsey Seelhoff, The Margins
What makes for a nourishing learning environment? What should we have in our homes and how should we organize our homes so that children will learn, will flourish, just by virtue of the environment we have created for them? What does an unschooling household look like?
http://www.gentlespirit.com/gs6n07/v6n07b.htm

What the Research on Learning and the Brain May Mean to Homeschooling Families
http://www.gentlespirit.com/gs6n07/v6n07c.htm

Backyard Wildlife Habitat
by Kathy Ward
Creating creature-friendly space in your backyard

http://www.gentlespirit.com/gs7n05/ada/Kathy.pdf

A Magical Childhood
I'm including this website mostly for the way Alicia Bayer has captured the spirit of committed homeschooling parents.
Of her childhood, Alicia Bayer, creator of A Magical Childhood, writes, "My mother divorced my father when I was two, and hid me from him for the rest of his life. We were very poor. I've lived in a car. There were times we had no money for shoes. I've gone without food. We moved from town to town as she put herself through graduate school, covering a half a dozen states. I was small, shy, poor, funny looking and new at every school. It was less than magical. ...I am also a survivor of extensive sexual abuse. It took a lot of work to rebuild my soul after what I survived, and my adult life has been spent in part by trying to help protect children and educate adults about this crippling epidemic....Fast forward to present, and I'm a poet with just under a hundred poems published. I'm working on a book telling the stories of women and kids killed by domestic violence in Minnesota. Some of those poems are now touring the country in a play about domestic violence. Until two years ago, I was the program director and sole advocate for our rural county's domestic violence program. A Magical Childhood Newsletter is just something I throw together because I love children and those who love them. To subscribe, send a message to abayer@magicalchildhood.com. We do not use ads. It's not about money. :) Feel free to pass this on. Don't steal it, that would be rude.
http://www.magicalchildhood.com

Home Education Magazine
The oldest and most respected of all homeschooling publications and the only one I recommend without qualification. Great boards, too.
http://www.home-ed-magazine.com/wlcm_HEM.html

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